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The Unfuckwithable Woman Podcast.

Reclaiming the Feminine, Reawakening the Mother, Tending the Motherwound, Dismantling Oppression

Welcome to The Unfuckwithable Woman (formerly The (re)Sourcsed Woman Podcast), a transformative podcast series dedicated to radical healing, empowerment, and the reclamation of the feminine. Through an intersectional feminist lens, we explore the journey of reconnecting with the mother, tending the motherline, and healing trauma-while dismantling the systems that have shaped us. In each episode, we dive deep into somatic practices, decolonisation, and the courage to embrace unshakable power. This series is for women-and all those called to this work-ready to reclaim their authentic selves, heal ancestral wounds, and break free from the chains of violence, oppression, and colonialism. Join us as we journey toward a world where the feminine is celebrated, honored, and truly unfuckwithable.

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Episode 17: Capacity and Repair. What Your Nervous System Actually Needs to Build Real Resilience

Resilience is not the ability to never break. It is not staying calm at all times, suppressing what you feel, or being the strong one who absorbs everything without reacting. Resilience is the ability to return. Return to yourself, return to connection, return after rupture.

In this episode of The Unfuckwithable Woman, I unpack nervous system capacity, the width of your window of tolerance, and why so many women were taught to endure instead of taught to return. We look at how capacity narrows in childhood environments where repair was rare, where needs were burdensome, where hypervigilance became the norm. And we look at why the problem was never the rupture itself. The problem is the absence of repair.

I share my own eighteen year practice of rupture and repair through motherhood, what it feels like in the body when capacity narrows, and how titration, small doses of activation followed by settling, is how we actually widen the nervous system's capacity over time. This is not suppression. It is not perfection. It is a return, again and again, to repair.

If this episode lands somewhere in you, I would love to hear from you. And if you are ready to feel this in your own body, not just understand it, a free twenty minute Clarity Session is a good place to start.

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Episode 16: Why Your Nervous System Is Not Broken · It's Brilliant

Why Your Nervous System Is Not Broken. It's Brilliant

Your nervous system is not misfiring. It is doing exactly what it was built to do.

In Episode 16 of The Unfuckwithable Woman, somatic psychotherapist, counsellor, educator, activist and leader Briony Montgomery offers a complete reframe of the nervous system regulation conversation and names exactly why most of what you are seeing in the neurowellness space right now is missing the point.

Because dysregulation is not a character flaw. It is a survival solution. And the shame you carry about your own biology is the wound beneath the wound.

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